about
I’m an ecosexual death nerd, devoted student of Eros, and enthusiast for pleasure as a pathway to liberation. I’m a queer, cisgender, first-generation Chinese settler living in Tiohtia:ke / Montreal.
My path to somatics emerged through 15+ years of embodied inquiry between Buddhist meditation practice, somatic movement, connecting to my ancestry and kinship with the more-than-human world. Surviving cervical cancer and unraveling long-held patterns of people-pleasing, perfectionism and anxious attachments rooted this work even more deeply in my body.
My work weaves mindfulness, movement, touch, Somatic Sex Education and BodyMind coaching.
I facilitate workshops on desire, grief rituals, death-curious gatherings, and eco-somatic experiences—supporting people to live and love more fully on their own terms.
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Your aliveness advocate.
Somatic Movement Educator (Endocrine, Nervous System, Fluids, Fascia)
BodyMind Centering School
Bonnie Brainbridge Cohen, Mariko Tanabe
Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker
Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education
Caffyn Jesse, Captain Snowdon, Corinne Diachuk,
Kai Cheng Thom (ongoing mentorship)
The Wheel of Consent- Like a Pro
The School of Consent
Betty Martin, Robyn Dalzen
Energetic Ecology
Marika Clymer
Certified Intimacy Educator
Caffyn Jesse
Intro to Politicized Somatics
Zoë April Poulette, Tess Waechter
Certified Death Doula
Going With Grace
Alua Arthur
Trainings and Teachers that inform my practice:
pleasure
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WHY IT'S VITAL
The more we notice what feels good, the more clearly we can discern what doesn’t. Neuroscience proves that what we pay attention to grows, and when we care for our body’s signals for connection, safety, and aliveness we build trust in its innate wisdom and erotic intelligence that beckons us towards wholeness and belonging. Pleasure expands our capacity to feel— bringing us into our bodies, helping us meet both joy and difficulty, including grief and discomfort, with greater ease and integrity.
From the mountains
to the beaches, we love it all.
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BENEFITS
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A lasting trust, love and compassion with your body
Communicating your boundaries and desires with clarity, confidence and care
Connection to creativity, play and spirit
Being seen and celebrated in your true multitude of selves- messiness and all
More everyday aliveness, joy and satisfaction
From the mountains
to the beaches, we love it all.
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Americano eu qui et brewed, caffeine ut variety seasonal aroma. Turkish strong cup robusta white variety at café au lait aroma a mug doppio. Breve brewed, eu wings roast, whipped ristretto americano beans barista beans con panna. In id mocha cortado qui ut extraction mug con panna cup aromatic ristretto. Organic cream single shot, mug foam trifecta single origin affogato. Mazagran crema turkish roast coffee that, wings, redeye aged dark medium robusta. Espresso, foam at coffee crema single shot aftertaste so aroma. Cup, lungo body, pumpkin spice extra cream, robusta ut extraction strong foam.
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Jess is such a gentle and thoughtful human being! I started going to her because I was looking for help with discovering and enforcing my sexual boundaries. She made sure that we went slow and established trust, which has been super helpful to know what that feels like in my body, so I can notice if other sexual partners can do this with me. It’s really special to have someone to work on rewiring my body to begin to know what safety feels like! Yay for safer sex practices.
faq
Absolutely not. You can have as much or as little clothing on as you’d like and nothing happens if you don’t ask for it. You are the one steering our session while I keep you anchored in your body’s experience. I meet you exactly where you are.
Please send me a direct email if cost is a barrier to you. I offer 2 sliding scale sessions to QTBIPOC each month.
Somatic is the practice of coming into relationship with the body by listening to sensation, breath, energy, impulse, and emotion as meaningful information. It’s an invitation to trust the body as a site of knowing, healing, and connection.
Yes aboslutely!
